A Prayer for the Mother and father of a Prodigal Youngster
By Alicia Searl
Bible Studying:
“However whereas he was nonetheless a great distance off, his father noticed him and was stuffed with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms round him and kissed him.” – Luke 15:20
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The parable of the prodigal son is a well-recognized one amongst believers and is usually shared in faith-based circles or amongst youth teams, offering a useful lesson of hope. But, when this story hits near residence, and a trustworthy father or mother witnesses the falling away of their very own flesh and blood, it may be insufferable at instances and there’s a sense of sheer helplessness.
A number of years in the past, we watched our oldest drift in life and observe a really damaging path. Though she was raised within the church and browse Bible tales since she had been within the womb, it’s virtually as if one thing inside her snapped and in a couple of brief months a damaging sample of habits emerged. It was coronary heart breaking. It nonetheless is heartbreaking as she continues to teeter over the road between worldliness and religion. But, when she does go together with us to church and I see her raise her arms in reward to worship the Lord, I do know deep in my coronary heart that whereas the enemy could also be wooing her, she nonetheless belongs to God. She is His daughter, in the beginning.
This will need to have been precisely how the prodigal son’s father felt upon seeing his son from a distance. Though he knew his son had squandered his inheritance, wasted his life on sinful pleasures, and basically ran away from all that was good, seeing his son made him rejoice.
Possibly you’re a father or mother of a prodigal son or wayward daughter, awaiting them to return residence, bodily and/or spiritually. If that’s the case, let me first prolong my heartfelt sympathy and say how very sorry I’m that you’re on this state of affairs. I want there have been the right phrases that might consolation your wounded coronary heart. Nevertheless, I do know and perceive the anguish and exhaustion that comes from elevating a baby in the best way they need to go solely to look at them half methods with it.
Nevertheless, if I can prolong any hope and encouragement to you at the moment, it’s this: you aren’t alone on this journey. There are such a lot of mother and father who’re combating the identical battles and infrequently accomplish that in silence. As a father or mother of a wayward daughter who has made loads of my very own parenting errors, I’m slowly coming to grips with a couple of realizations. Possibly that you must be reminded of them, too?
First, your youngsters’s selections aren’t a mirrored image of your parenting abilities, however relatively a harsh reminder of the challenges of elevating youngsters in a misplaced and damaged world (Romans 3:23) God provides us the free will to decide on between good and evil, so we should lay the religious basis, then give the liberty to decide on as properly (Matthew 22:37).
The reality of the matter is that your youngster could also be selecting to dwell in a way that’s displeasing to you, however there are penalties for selecting their very own method and never obeying God and His will (Colossians 3:25). Typically our kids have to study that the onerous method and will even hit all-time low. As unhappy as it’s to listen to these phrases, now we have hope, and God’s Phrase affords assist! Oh, expensive buddy, we should maintain on to the reality that we serve a God that’s merciful and forgiving and is regularly pursuing us, irrespective of how far we enterprise off or how a lot our sins attempt to devour us (Luke 15:4-6). That implies that the prayers of a father or mother for his or her prodigal youngster are so very highly effective, and we are able to pray for deliverance and God’s hand of mercy over them!
Let’s Pray:
Father God, You’re our true supply of hope and the place we are able to go for assist after we are determined and weary. Right now I raise my damaged coronary heart to You in want of the hope that may solely be present in Your love, mercy, and style. I’ve completed my finest to lift my son/daughter (identify) in a Godly residence, however I admit I’ve made loads of errors. Please forgive me the place I’ve failed You or my youngster and supply therapeutic to the injuries which have been acquired on this journey. Lord, I thanks for my son. I deeply love him, however the selections and selections that he’s making are inflicting a wake of destruction and a lot pressure to our relationship. I do know You might have a plan for him, and even within the midst of those trials there’s a function, so I maintain tightly to the promise that this can be part of his testimony and can be utilized for good.
O God, I do know You’re a lot stronger than any depraved influences which can be discovered on this world, and the temptations that my son faces, which is why I’ve religion that he will be unable to completely depart from the inspiration that was set earlier than him (Proverbs 22:6). I plead with my complete coronary heart for You to launch him of this sinful maintain, that each lie from the deceiver can be delivered to gentle, and that he’ll search repentance. I pray no weapon shaped towards my youngster prosper as a result of he’s lined by the love, mercy, and blood of Jesus.
I ask all of this in Your holy and treasured identify, Jesus, amen.
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